This is how I bribed a government official, a first for me, and the subsequent developments.
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Wednesday, March 26, 2025
MY FIRST BRIBE: A TALE OF OCTROI, SNACKS, AND SICK LEAVE
Wednesday, March 12, 2025
Thursday, February 27, 2025
FIELD TRIP WITH PRE-SCHOOLERS
I wanted in when I heard that the kids were going on a field trip.
My friend here runs a pre-school / day-care.
So he designated me as the photographer for the trip. Seven kids got permission from their parents to go on this field trip. So me, my friend, an ayah and the seven knee-high toddlers got into an Innova and off we went. They reminded me of my school picnics and excursions.
Where were we going. Is it Nandi Hills. Is it Bannerghatta zoo or is it Vishveshwaraiah Museum. Don’t think so. The kids are too small.
Well, it turned out to be an aquarium shop down the lane.
The seven walked into the shop and were zapped to see so many brightly lit tanks and so many fishes.
For a few seconds they were speechless. And then one girl started crying. Taking cue all the others too started crying.
End of field trip.
We all got into the Innova and returned back to base.
#kidtales
#fieldtrip
Wednesday, February 12, 2025
THE MAKING OF KABHI KABHIE: A STORY OF FATE AND DETERMINATION
In the mid-1970s, Yash Chopra was working on Kabhi Kabhie, a film that would eventually become one of the most celebrated romantic dramas in Indian cinema. His wife, Pamela Chopra, had written the story, and the legendary poet-lyricist Sahir Ludhianvi was penning the songs. For the music, Yash initially envisioned the dynamic duo Laxmikant-Pyarelal, who had delivered a chartbuster soundtrack for his previous film, Daag.
But Sahir Ludhianvi had a different vision. He insisted that the music should be composed by Khayyam, a talented but underappreciated composer who had delivered some exquisite melodies in the 1950s and ’60s but had never quite reached the top league. Yash Chopra agreed, but there was just one problem—no one knew where to find Khayyam. All they knew was that he lived somewhere in Juhu.
Determined, Yash Chopra and Sahir set out on an unconventional search, driving around the streets of Juhu, hoping to spot him. As fate would have it, they saw his wife, the singer Jagjit Kaur, buying vegetables at a roadside stall. One chance encounter changed everything, and soon, Khayyam was on board for Kabhi Kabhie.
However, another hurdle awaited. Laxmikant-Pyarelal did not take kindly to this last-minute change. Having already given a massive hit for Yash Chopra, they had expected to compose for Kabhi Kabhie and were deeply offended. Their displeasure echoed across the industry, and most session musicians refused to work on the film out of loyalty to LP.
This could have been the end of the road for the soundtrack. But Yash Chopra was not one to back down. His indomitable Punjabi spirit kicked in, and he found an ingenious solution—he brought in musicians from the Indian Navy band to record the songs. Just when things seemed to be falling into place, tragedy struck again. Mukesh, the legendary playback singer chosen to voice the film’s songs, suffered a heart attack and was bedridden for months, causing further delays.
Despite all these obstacles, the team persevered. And in the end, what emerged was a masterpiece. Kabhi Kabhie became an enduring classic, with its soul-stirring music, poetic lyrics, and timeless romance. Khayyam’s haunting melodies, Sahir’s evocative poetry, and Yash Chopra’s cinematic vision created magic that would be cherished for generations to come.
Sometimes, the greatest art is born out of struggle, and Kabhi Kabhie was a testament to that.
#kabhiekabhie
Wednesday, January 29, 2025
WIFE OR PARENTS | hguy.blogspot.com
Who takes prime position? Parents or spouse.
Parents push their way to the front in India, but, in the US, it's the wife. One family learnt it the hard way.
Nagesh comes home and gets engaged to this girl. It was pipelined for some time. He was gaga and went out on long drives with the girl and showed her all the family property, including the benami ones which no one was supposed to know.
Anyways, marriage solemnised, and he flew back to the US. He will now begin paperwork for his new wife and she will join him soon. From the airport, he went to a relative’s place where he had parked his car. Here he slept for 2 hrs and then, after a hearty meal, left for his place, which was 3 hrs away. The relatives ask him to stay, rest – esp. after the long flight - and leave the next day. But the next day was Monday, and he needed to be at work first thing. Midway, he met with an accident and, sadly, passed away.
His parents and the newlywed wife leave for the US. They get no info from the authorities. Just asked to wait. The father makes daily trips to the police station – Indian style - but is told nothing. Please wait for the investigation to complete. This makes the father very suspicious. The vehicle is badly damaged but no other vehicle in the accident.
The relatives in India get a sad report. Some say that Americans seem to be protecting their own. Something fishy, says the other.
Then they are asked to visit the hospital. So the three reach there. The son is in a bed as though sleeping. Only the wife is allowed into the room. She is allowed to sit there and hold his hands. The parents are only allowed to look through a glass window. All this was reported to India.
Chalu Americans. What are they up to? Finally, the body is handed over to them. Technically, it was handed over to the wife. All correspondence was directed to the wife. They contact some local temples, and a 25-year-old sw engineer— who is also the head priest there — performs the last rights.
A week later, they get the police report. Things are a lot clearer now. It looks like the poor fellow fell asleep behind the wheel, hit the road divider, and flipped. The authorities took time to track an eyewitness and record his statement.
Crystal clear.
No doubts in anyone’s mind. Only the cultural shock that the wife is given precedence over the parents.
Wednesday, January 15, 2025
AN ADVENTURE AT VICTORIA HOSPITAL, BANGALORE
Hospitals
aren’t typically places for adventures, but life often surprises us. My journey
with a hernia surgery at Bangalore’s Victoria Hospital turned out to be one of
those unexpected tales that stick with you — not for the pain, but for the
people, the quirks, and the lessons learned.
Let me set the stage. I’m a big guy. Some say, large. And as if that wasn’t
enough, I have hypertension — a polite way of saying my blood pressure thinks
it’s competing in a race. So, when I was told surgery was necessary, it wasn’t
just a case of rolling me onto the operating table and getting on with it. The
hospital staff took no chances, conducting test after test until I was cleared
for the procedure.
The day finally arrived, and there I was, lying on the operating table, with
local anesthesia coursing into my body through my spine. I was conscious the
entire time, feeling nothing but a peculiar pressure on my chest — a sensation
I’d liken to a 60-wheeler truck idling there.
Now, I must sing praises for the unsung heroes of any surgery: the anesthetic
team. These remarkable professionals, whose names I’ll never know, held my
hand, talked me through the process, and kept me calm for the entirety of the two-hour long
procedure. They’re the ones who ensure you drift off to la-la land and, more
importantly, wake up afterward. Yet, we rarely remember them, let alone thank
them. Here’s to you, silent saviors of the surgical world!
The surgery itself was a success, though it came at a small cost — I lost my
belly button. Yes, my cute, round innie navel, gone forever. They’d warned me
beforehand, even made me sign a declaration acknowledging its possible
departure. It’s strange how something so small can feel like such a significant
part of you. Farewell, old friend.
My surgery was conducted by, lets just say, Team B — efficient, precise, and,
like a good PowerPoint presentation, straight to the point. Special thanks to
Dr. B himself, the maestro of the operation, who managed to perform a
sophisticated medical procedure while keeping his communication crisp with
razor-sharp clarity.
A humble thanks to all those who took time out of their busy schedule to see
that things went ok for good old me.
Victoria Hospital itself is a fascinating ecosystem. It’s a well-oiled machine
where the key to surviving (and thriving) is simple: do as you’re told, not what you think. Focus
on the task at hand and don’t get distracted by the grand chaos around you. The
doctors don’t have time for chatter, which is understandable given the sheer
number of patients they treat daily. They’re like magicians performing their
tricks without the theatrics — just results.
Now, let me put across an idea. Picture this: a mini metro system snaking its
way through the hospital. Two lines, strategically designed. The Purple Line
would start at the main gate, stop at the Infosys Lab, the New OPD block, Vani
Vilas, and the trauma care unit, before winding its way to nephrology, the
Pradhan Mantri unit, and back to the admin block. Meanwhile, the Magenta Line
could begin at the other entrance, make its way past the Medical College,
hostel, the older blocks, and the burn ward, before completing its loop. Trains
start every ten minutes, no charge, zipping patients and staff to their
destinations like clockwork. Think of it — a transit system for a hospital that is the
size of a small town!
During my two-week stay, another marvel stood out: there wasn’t a single
mosquito or housefly. Not one. In a public hospital, no less! A rare feat in
India. Whatever pest-control magic they’ve conjured, it deserves a standing
ovation. If they can manage that, maybe my metro dream
isn’t so far-fetched after all.
In the end, my time at Victoria Hospital wasn’t just about surgery—it was an
experience. A journey through a world that, despite its challenges, functions
with remarkable efficiency. To the doctors, the anesthesiologist angels, the
administrators, the silent pest-control heroes, and the frontline warriors of
Team B: thank you. And to my navel, - tata, you’ll be missed.
Wednesday, December 25, 2024
A TALE OF TWO METRO RAIL: HYDERABAD VS. BANGALORE
Today, I embarked on my first metro journey in
Hyderabad, and naturally, my mind raced back to compare it with the metro
experience in Bangalore. Here's how they stack up:
Way up in the sky: The Hyderabad metro is notably elevated, perhaps to an extreme, which I can only guess is either to accommodate future expansion or to increase the bill for construction and installation of a lot more escalators and lifts. You know why!
It's a unique feature but raises
questions about practical use and cost efficiency.
Commercialization: Hyderabad's metro stations
double as mini-malls, bustling with shops and eateries. The same things you get right outside the station. While this might boost
local commerce, it somewhat detracts from the primary function of quick
transit. In contrast, Bangalore's stations, while less commercial, offer a
straightforward transit experience. You won't find a ciggi shop, but you'll
find a functional space.
Cleanliness and Passenger Experience: Bangalore's metro shines in
cleanliness, with stations so spotless you feel it’s something automatic as you
hardly see the cleaning staff at work. The trains are longer, moving more
people while maintaining a spacious feel. In Hyderabad, however, the stations
feel cramped, and cleanliness is more visible with cleaners often sweeping into
your face. The space constraint might be due to the commercial additions or
simply design choices.
Smoothness of Ride: Bangalore's metro feels like
it glides on butter, offering a smooth, almost silent journey. Hyderabad's, on
the other hand, feels less refined, with a ride that seems more like a HMT tractor pulling a rocket lorry
on a kankar road, metaphorically speaking. My first ride here in Hyderabad
included an unexpected stop between stations, something I've never encountered
in my years and years of travel within Bangalore.
Ticket Systems: Bangalore uses a round
plastic token for tickets, a tactile and reusable solution. Hyderabad opts for
a printed QR code or an online scan-and-pay system, which, while modern, lacks
the physicality of Bangalore's tokens.
Announcements: The Hindi voice-over in Hyderabad seems to treat commuters like they need everything explained very slowly, which can feel a bit condescending. Dont ask for examples but I missed the names of some stops coz the first bit and the last bit were far apart.
Social Observations: One stark contrast is the
presence of beggars at Hyderabad's metro stations – a social issue not as
visible in Bangalore's cleaner, perhaps more controlled environment. It's a
reminder of broader societal challenges that public spaces reflect.
Consideration for Passengers:
Hyderabad seems to prioritize senior citizens with more reserved seats,
showcasing a cultural respect for the elderly. Bangalore combines seats for
both seniors and pregnant women, which is less efficient and less specific.
At last, Hyd scores.
Final Thoughts:
While both cities have commendable metro systems, they each carry unique approaches to commuter experience, urban integration, and operational efficiency. I am not qualified to say which is better but Bangalore is. And remember, I am a pucca Hyderabadi from namma Bengaluru.
Anyway, there is a video of the trip. Enjoy.
#nammametro #hydmetro #bangalore #hyderabad #bengaluru #compare
Thursday, December 12, 2024
Thursday, November 28, 2024
WE SHALL MEET AT 9:00 | CHRONICLE OF AGES

The cab came early, at 615. They reached Srirangapatnam by 730.
"I arrived early," she messaged the priest."Can we meet now?"
They took a coffee break. Next to the shop was a poster of a temple. It was called Nimishamba temple. Where the god grants wishes every minute—nimisham. So to the temple it was. And as she was exiting, she saw another poster. For another temple. The Kshnamaba temple. Where the goddess grants wishes every second - kshanam. So there was another temple visit. After Darshan, she went to meet the priest. And as the priest walked in, she saw her watch. Dot 9 am.
Wednesday, November 13, 2024
ME AND SAMURAI MOVIES | hguy.blogspot.com
2023, I went on a samurai binge. You know, sword-fighting movies from the islands of Japan. I started with the most revered movie in this group - Akira Kurusawa's The Seven Samurai. Good, really good. Unique culture, Unique hairstyles, Unique houses. But you need to be a movie buff to get into them. A casual viewer may want to stick to the easily consumable version - The Magnificent Seven.
I found almost all Samurai movies are slow-paced. Long chunks of storytelling followed by a few seconds of swordplay, followed by blood spewing like a fountain.
It all started with the accidental viewing of a movie called 'The Twilight Samurai' (2002). I loved this movie. Then I watched 'Kill Bill which had some fantastic swordplay.
So I went back in time. The first was 'Harakiri (1962). It slowly builds up to a twist. Then I saw 'Goyokin' with the same actor. Next was 'Samurai Wolf' 1966.
Not many woman characters in these movies. The one who are there are either whores or are quickly bumped off. Look whose talking, me from the land of Bollywood where the only job of women is to run around trees.
Then I landed a movie called 'Lone Wolf and Baby Cart'. The premise itself intrigued me. An assassin going around with a baby. I saw four movies in this series. All great. Then they, as it happens, started to drag a lot, so I let go.
Later I found a movie called 'Zatochi. It's about a blind masseuse. Interesting na. This happens to be the longest-running movie series. 26 or 27 movies made so far. I saw a few b/w and a few color ones. BTW Lone Wolf and Zatochi are brothers in real life. The actors I mean.
A new series called 'Shogun just dropped on my favorite streaming service, Torrents, and I am hooked. It's a slow burn and I hope its worth my time overall. (I gave up miday- Dont know why)
Wednesday, October 30, 2024
Wednesday, October 16, 2024
HOW TO WRITE | hguy.blogspot.com
The Thakkar Commission Report (published 1986) pointed the “needle of suspicion" at RK Dhawan for complicity in the conspiracy to assassinate Indira Gandhi. This can't be true. Dhawan would have thrown himself in front of a bus to save IG.
What that implied was Manharlal Pranlal Thakkar was enraged by his own sub-par investigative abilities. He was looking for someone to blame, and right then Dhawan presented himself, whose only transgression was to keep quiet and decline to respond to any of the questions.
A government report writer is a very powerful person. I have no doubt that Dhawan suffered greatly as a result of those remarks, and it may have even damaged his career thereon.
Wednesday, September 25, 2024
HAPPY HELPING HANDS | hguy.blogspot.com
Wednesday, September 11, 2024
WHAT DO YOU SEE - Again | hguy.blogspot.com
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Bernadine 'Birdie Pruessner |
What a lovely face, na?
She must live a maha-satisfied life with the entire world at her feet.
However, that is not true.
She is no more with us.
She killed herself and her four children when she set fire to the house in the early months of 2024 while they slept. All of the children were younger than ten.
She appeared to be involved in a protracted legal battle with her ex-husband and ex-boyfriend, who are the father of two children each .
By the way, in 2013 she was named "Missouri Teacher of the Year."
#BernadinePruessner
Wednesday, August 28, 2024
NEXT JANMA LOVE Part II | hguy.blogspot.com
Trust me when I say that the two did end up getting married. Both engineers. Both employed. And everything appeared to be going well.
Until.
He got a job in Canada.
And he took his wife and went.
He working. She is a homemaker [hate this word, sounds more like a mestri].
A couple of years later, they return to India, buy a house.
He working. She still the aforementioned homemaker.
Do you see where I am going with this?
If you think homemaker is my point, then you are totally wrong. Well, not totally.
Her mother, a widow for a long time, moved in next door. Every day, the mother and daughter get together. He cant stand his mother-in-law's manipulative and medling behaviour. One thing leads to another, and we see hubby & wife squabbling a lot.
They decided to part ways. She says she will take the house and only then grant him a divorce.
It's only here that she realises the house is not in his name. His father countersigned the loan needed to buy the house. Father made sure the house was in his wife's name.
The girl changes her tune overnight. No. I don't want a divorce.
The boy is wiser.
Today. They have been separated for four years or more. Leading independent lives. 100's of people are working overtime, trying to bring them together. There is so much bitterness, that I don't think it will happen. But who knows?
This all was pre-pandemic and I am not up-to-date on this story. I only hope there is a nice juicy part 3 to tell. I mean with a happy ending.
Wednesday, August 14, 2024
THAT DAY IN 2012 | hguy.blogspot.com
One evening I went to a cyber cafe as the net company had blocked my net access at home. Why bole tho...when the verifier came home, it was locked. What did he expect? I will leave my job and wait for him.
Anyways.. I logged into Facebook and ping..A message from Aruna. Couldn't believe it. To tell the truth, I have Altavista-ed her, Yahooed her, Lycos-ed her, and even Googl-ed her but she was elusive.
But when she wanted she found me in a jiffy.
Wednesday, July 17, 2024
A MAKE-IN-INDIA STORY
Today.
I'm going to tell you about a great Made-in-India story.
It was a wise decision by the government to replace incandescent light bulbs with more energy-efficient LED and CFL.
Excellent.
The government decided to go one step further and manufacture the bulbs on its own - by mostly subcontracting, offering them for sale to the general public at fair pricing. Really low pricing.
Not bad na.
The entity that was established was ESSL.
They produced a product that looked good enough, but that's it. Their bulbs and tube lights lasted precisely three weeks before they went phut, as if set to a timer.
Not that they didn't know of the problem but they already had a solution. Get rid of all the inventory as soon as you can.
You won't believe me when I say they sold bulbs and tube lights like vegetables. Door to door. Brightly-lit zing-bang open vehicles went gully to gully and sold the ware. Damn cheap. 50/- for three. And it all sold. Fatafat. The temporary warehouses quietly closed down and the phone number of the company stopped working. Coz these were sold with a lifetime guarantee not just a warranty.
My landlord got excited and replaced all our lights for free. Only for us to keep buying the perishables. I have kept all those bulbs and tube lights.
Coz when Modi comes to give me that 15 lakh which he promised to drop in my pocket. I will ask him for another 500/-
#essl #bulbs #tubelights
Wednesday, June 26, 2024
KIDNEY STONES KI KAHANI | hguy.blogspot.com
My stomach hurt a lot one night. Piercing discomfort. I agonised all night, and in the morning I visited my neighbour; a well-known physician with impeccable bedside manners. He gave me a quick glance after my rona-dhona subsided and remarked, "Go have a beer." I was zapped. He explained.
You have kidney stones? And alcohol aids in the stone's dissolution.
But he wanted me to go for a scan just to be sure.
Thus I visited this medical facility.
They began admitting formalities and discussed surgery with me right away. I waited there in misery while they were preoccupied with aforementioned admissions formalities. Not in pain anymore so I wondered why surgery. I came in just for a scan. BTW I had 100% health insurance from the company I worked for.
Those days I had one of those little Nokia phones. I pulled it out and contacted a friend and asked him to grab me a pant shirt from my room (which was happily unlocked) and come to this blessed hospital. And then sent my office cab driver a message asking him to pick my up near the hospital (it was on the way).
He did it my friend, brought me a ripped-out t-shirt and a much-used sweatpants from the to-wash pile . I snuck out, climbed the cab and arrived at work wearing that outfit—complete with chappals, of course, Hawaii.
When I told the doctor this story, he laughed like a ticklish girl. Despite me robbing him of a big cut. He stated. The stone will come out on its own. Bring it to me. Alright.
So, it came out while urinating one day at work. I picked it up with haste using tissue paper, the whole process keenly observed by my boss. Wondering, whats wrong with me. I presented it to the physician. Parts of it were red. Give up tomatoes and brinjals, he urged.
What he is unaware of I don't have control over what I eat coz I eat mostly outside. You can't make Vangibath without Vangi. Na.
Wednesday, June 12, 2024
Thursday, May 30, 2024
WHAT DO YOU SEE? | hguy.blogspot.com
What do you see in this pic?
What if I tell you that this woman has had a miserable life, and has now found love, and is going to get married soon?
You will say, cool, everyone deserves some happiness.
See the pic again. What if I say she is a single mom who took her kid out of school, resigned from her job, and went on a Europe trip with her son.
You will say, OK, that's also education.
Look at her again. Now the truth bomb.
She took her 5-year-old foster son away from his biological father. The son was later found, dead, in a gutter. She was coolly roaming on the roads. Not coolly, it was suspicious coz someone called the cops.
My only problem was that she was driving a Jeep Cherokee.
Here in India, it's only the stinking rich who can afford that vehicle. In the US, it's the thugs. The ones who are above them, the filthy rich, go for Audi, BMW, Merc, or Volvo.
This is a developing story. Wonder what more crap needs to come out.
#PammyMaye #DarnellTaylor
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